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Each summer I put together a list of all the problems we’re addressing and all the projects we know we’ll be working on through the MHSAA during the year ahead.  It’s always a long list, and accomplishing just a few items would make any year a good year.

So, this requires that we try to decide between all that we might do and all that we must do.  And here’s a reminder of one thing we must do.

When I ask school and community groups with whom I’m speaking about what they think the problems are in school sports, the most popular responses from these constituents are (1) too little funding, and (2) too many misdirected parents; or sometimes that order is reversed:  over-involved parents and under-funded programs.

I like to caution people that in some situations, our students suffer from too little adult engagement in their lives and that, almost everywhere, interscholastic athletics benefit greatly from the time and energy parents and other adults volunteer to help local programs operate.  But I get the point of what I’m hearing.

These and other responses I hear – serious as these cited problems can be – may merely be symptoms of the single, fundamental issue that’s at the heart of all the others.  That’s perspective.

  • Too little money for schools and sports?
    Perspective – spending money on less essential things.
  • Pressure-packed parents?
    Perspective – people focusing on adults’ desires more than students’ needs.
  • Poor sportsmanship?
    Perspective – forgetting or never learning the pure purpose of educational athletics.
  • Too much specialization?  Too much year-round competition?
    Perspective again.
  • Too much talk of college athletic scholarships?
    Perspective once again.

In essence, almost all issues arise from matters of perspective.  At their root, almost all problems are problems of perspective.

What can we do about this?

I don’t have the perfect prescription; but one thing is certain:  we can’t relegate this to an afterthought.  We cannot hope to make time to address this problem each day; we must plan to make time for it each day.

We need to model a positive perspective.  Point to it when we see it.  Explain it.  Reward it.

It can’t be left to others. We are the guardians of proper perspective.  It’s Job 1.

Comments

Mike Pryson
# Mike Pryson
Tuesday, November 2, 2010 8:21 PM
I overheard something from a young athlete that made me pause after a recent youth soccer game where a few parents were more concerned about the officiating than about just having fun watching their kids play a game on a beautiful fall day.

"I wish sometimes that they made parents watch the games from a glass booth where we don't have to hear them."

It's sad when parents take the games more seriously than the kids. I just wish more parents would worry less about wins and losses and just enjoy the short time, relatively speaking, that they have to watch their sons and daughters participate in sports. Those young people will be away at college or starting families of their own before you know it ... and no one will know or care about the score of that game they played when they were 13 or 14 years old.

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